Why are women so catty? I mean, seriously. You put a group of about ohh.. a couple thousand women (truthfully though you only need about 5 for this to happen though) on a message board and you get some of these people searching for information on people!
I have had this happen to me, more than once. I have also had people turn around and lie about me. What is the point? What is the point to turn around and do this kind of stuff?
I'll admit, a few years ago, I was part of a 'secret' board that consisted of about 15 women and we made fun of the other members of the larger board. I've never gone to the extreme of searching for people, but I have done my own share of things. I learned my lesson after that time though and haven't done something like it.
Yet, I still seem to attrack that kind of attention. Karma, I guess. But when does it end? lol
I haven't had it come up in the recent past, but it is the reason for the aliases. I share pictures of the boys here occasionally but it's nothing that can be searched. No one is going to search for "Indy, Thomas, James and Alexander" so I don't worry.
If certain places knew of my blog, I would be harrassed and they would take things from it and use it against me. Because, you know, I'm a horrible person for having debt. For having credit cards. And, for, omg, thinking of TTC#3 while in debt. No one knows my exact situation, not from reading this! So why they presume to, I have no idea. They do not know what circumstances will have changed by the time a baby would arrive. You're pregnant for 9 months, a lot of things can happen in that time.
Anyway, people piss me off.
Jamey is feeling better. His earache was all gone this morning. YAY breastmilk!
written by indy1212
November 16, 2004 at 4:54 p.m.